Monday, January 19, 2015

Monday Musing


"I believe that we are put here in human form to decipher the hieroglyphs of love and suffering. And, there is no degree of love or intensity of feeling that does not bring with it the possibility of a crippling hurt. But, it is a duty to take that risk and love without reserve or defense."

- Allen Ginsberg 

xxx

Friday, January 16, 2015

Donut Worry

I found this really cute picture shortly after writing about my New Year’s resolutions, and although I am finding worrying less is easier said than done - doughnuts are certainly a cheerful looking treat.







Have a Happy Weekend Friends!
xx

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

Beautiful Clarens

This year I would really like to travel more.

We spent the first part of our holiday in Clarens – you may remember I have posted about this magical place before here & here. It is really one of the most beautiful places I have ever been, and the relaxed atmosphere was a great way to start a much needed holiday.

Josh and I arrived on Sunday afternoon, and after having no electricity at home for 5 days before this, decided we would treat ourselves to a night at the Protea hotel. We enjoyed a warm shower, relaxed in the king size bed while watching TV and feasting on far too much room service food.

Within minutes, I could feel the stresses of the year I was leaving behind begin to disappear. This was probably the point at which both Josh and I decided that getting away more was a very necessary ambition for the upcoming year.


The next morning we took advantage of the delicious coffee and vast breakfast buffet, as we waited for friends to arrive that afternoon, for the next part of our stay in Clarens, at Sediba Lodge.

After lunch at The Post House, we set off for the lodge. Sediba lodge is truly luxury accommodation. We stayed in one of the lodges situated on the edge of a trout dam surrounded by the magnificent Clarens Mountains. Besides the amazing surroundings, the lodge itself was absolutely gorgeous, offering all the comforts of home and more.



We spent most afternoons sipping on the local craft beer on the veranda or sitting alongside the dam while the guys enjoyed (unsuccessful) trout fishing, all the while unwinding with the beautiful view.







The day before we left we took a drive to Golden Gate – which is honestly breath taking.
The park gets its name from the golden colour created by the sun’s reflection on the sandstone cliffs.
I find that seeing such vast beauty helps me to put my life into perspective… which is very necessary at times. It is amazing to be reminded of the wonder that exists around me.














We enjoyed a braai every evening, eating indoors, as the weather is really cold at night.
It is hard to believe that after being sun burned in the afternoon, we found ourselves sitting around a fire at night.





On our last night in Clarens, Josh and I took a little walk to look at the stars before bed.
This was the most memorable part of our time in Clarens – which in such a stunning place really speaks volumes. I can’t begin to describe the way I felt as we stood quietly staring at the incredible night sky scattered with literally thousands of stars. I was reminded of a quote by Vincent Van Gogh, which Josh sent to me in the very beginning of our relationship: “For my part I know nothing with any certainty but the sight of the stars makes me dream.”




I look forward to my next visit to this special place again soon.


xx

Monday, January 12, 2015

2015 New Year's Resolutions


It is the second week I have been back at work this year…although I was ill for most of last week, which put a bit of a damper on my New Year’s resolutions. None the less, it is a new week, and I am feeling positive about my goals.

I thought long and hard about what I wanted to achieve this year and about what resolutions were worth attempting again, and I came up with a really long list.

I listed big things, little things, things that were ambiguous, as well as things that were very specific. I have been carrying my list around with me, and adding things as I go along.

I have managed to summarise this list into a few main goals, which I believe cover most of the little goals, as well as having a list of goals that complement each other.

Worry Less
For as long as I can remember I have been a worrier – and although I am well aware that absolutely no good comes from worrying, I do it anyway. This year I am going to make a concerted effort to worry less.

Part of this is also resolving various issues which cause me worry.

Do More of What I Love
This is one of my ambiguous goals for 2015, but within it, falls many specific goals.
Create, art, travel, learn, laugh, write, read, blog, exercise…

Be Kind to My Body
Besides doing more exercise, I am going to try and commit to much healthier eating habits.
This is not to say I won't enjoy the good things in life, but I think that I need to find the balance between things that are good for me, and those that I enjoy, which are less healthy.

A big part of being kind to my body giving up smoking…again.
Because this is such a tough one, I have given myself until my birthday (August) to quit completely – But I am trying my best to stop before then.

Learn to Love Myself
“You need to love yourself…”
I have heard this phrase a lot, but until recently, I have never fully grasped it… In fact I am not sure if I even really do.
I hope to explore and understand this concept more this year – and hopefully in the process, learn to love myself.

Declutter My Life
I am quite easily overwhelmed, and a very big contributor to this feeling is clutter.
Too many plans, too much to do, an untidy space, an untidy mind…
I plan to get organized, to clear my mind, to say no.

I am happy to say that despite my setback last week, I am quite pleased with my progress so far.
Here’s hoping I can stay positive, and make progress with all of my resolutions.


Wish me luck xx


Monday, January 5, 2015

Happy New Year!

It is my first day back at work today after an amazing holiday.
Although I am very sad that my holiday is over, and would much rather be sitting poolside sippin’ on something alcoholic, I am someone who needs structure, and routine in my life– Call me boring if you like…
You see, if you have been reading my blog for some time, you will know that I am a sucker for setting New Year’s Resolutions, and generally these guys only kick into gear when I begin my routine.  
So as far as me and my resolutions are concerned, this is the first day of 2015.
On that note, I would like to wish you all a very Happy New Year!
I leave you with this amazing wish by writer Neil Gaiman…


xxx





Friday, November 21, 2014

Playful Polka Dots

This past week has been a particularly draining week for me - I am so relieved it's Friday!
In a perfect world, I would climb into bed and stay there for the whole weekend.
In fact, in that perfect world my bedding would be covered in playful polka dots like these...




All images Pinterest 

Have a Happy Weekend!
xx

Monday, November 10, 2014

Monday Musing




What a wonderful word - what a wonderful thing to be...
xxx